but isn't it worth it to be with the one that you love?
how can kita boleh sure kita boleh hidup hanya dengan cinta?
lecturer saya yang juga seorang peguam syarie bagitahu, average couple hanya boleh hidup dengan cinta selama 5 tahun.
5 tahun tu sangat awal dalam usia perkahwinan. sangat-sangat baru.
happily ever after? with your humanly love?
*cough cough*
i'm not saying that marriage is not good
it's a sunnah in fact.
but it's not good if you define marriage with your worthless love before marriage thingy.
it's not good sisters.
so how to define a good marriage?
for me, a marriage itself is a way for you to strengthen your relationship with Allah
so, put your utmost love to ALLAH, and to Rasulullah s.a.w
only then will be the place of your husband, your other half in this world.
Jadikan perkahwinan sebagai satu cara untuk makin rapat dan bahagia dengan Allah. Bukan menjadikan perkahwinan itu sebagai satu cara untuk kita bahagia semata-mata.
Sebab bila kita mendefinisikan bahagia dengan perkahwinan ini, tak mustahil kita akan kecewa.
Kecewa.
99% kecewa dengan perkahwinan yang bersandarkan cinta dan harapan.
So, how can we be content with the marriage?
Through coming closer to Him and turning back to Him, you will begin to find true happiness and contentment, insya Allah. Marriage should be viewed as a means to draw you closer to Allah s.w.t. a means of attaining His pleasure and earning His Paradise! - Ubah Mahmoud
for me, a marriage itself is a way for you to strengthen your relationship with Allah
so, put your utmost love to ALLAH, and to Rasulullah s.a.w
only then will be the place of your husband, your other half in this world.
Jadikan perkahwinan sebagai satu cara untuk makin rapat dan bahagia dengan Allah. Bukan menjadikan perkahwinan itu sebagai satu cara untuk kita bahagia semata-mata.
Sebab bila kita mendefinisikan bahagia dengan perkahwinan ini, tak mustahil kita akan kecewa.
Kecewa.
99% kecewa dengan perkahwinan yang bersandarkan cinta dan harapan.
So, how can we be content with the marriage?
Through coming closer to Him and turning back to Him, you will begin to find true happiness and contentment, insya Allah. Marriage should be viewed as a means to draw you closer to Allah s.w.t. a means of attaining His pleasure and earning His Paradise! - Ubah Mahmoud